Teen Dating Violence has No Color, Age, Race, or Gender

Domestic Violence has no color, age, race, or gender. I encountered my first experience around the age of 14. In He Loves Me Not: Buried Tears of Betrayed Love I share my own experience with teen dating violence. It is very important to know the signs early on. Here I've listed a few signs you should look for:

1. Has a history of violence and/or threats use of violence

2. Extremely jealous

3. Constantly checks up on you

4. Controlling behavior

5. Isolates you from your family and friends

6. Gets upset if he sees you looking at someone else

7. Quick tempered

8. Bullying

9. Aggressive

10. Blames others for their problems

11. Humiliates or belittles you

12. Abuses animals

Studies show that 1 in 5 teens will encounter violence in teen dating. Children exposed to abuse in their home are more likely to encounter abuse in their relationships as they perceive this to be normal. The first signs of abuse are usually so unnoticeable you may over look them as an accident or playful joking such as choking, twisting the arm or wrist, pushing or being pinned down. All the extra attention may come off as cute yet is more of a possessive ownership character and can be mistaken for love. Because of the embarrassment abuse brings, teens will not ask for help from family and friends and may even hide the abuse. Each year nearly 10% of high school students are victims of dating violence. Remember, One Decision Makes All the Difference. No one has the right to abuse anyone. It's your choice to stay, its your choice to leave.

Kimesha Coleman is a Motivational Speaker and Self Esteem Enhancement Expert. She is available for bookings for schools, workshops, conferences, church events, and women group events. To book Kimesha submit your request here for your next event.